wedding customs in China (6)

April 23rd, 2009

On another condition,the lovers’plan has been known by the girl’s parents or the new slipped by the boy’s family,the parents of the girl would tell other boy they plan to marry their daughter to pick up their daughter.and the boy who received the news would find a group of strong man and let them surrand the girls’house,and then let two of them go into the girls room,telling her,”I am picking up,cousin”,then one of them back the girl,catching her hands firmly while another man holding her feet,running away to the boy’s house. By then ,even if the girl’s lover reach there ,he can not break into the girl’s house or interception the girl but just helplessly watching the girl being snatched away,because this is the rule of Achang bride theft.