from:http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1196046/She-buy-wedding-dress-12-says-father-bigamy-bride.html

She poses proudly in her bridesmaid’s dress, the very picture of cherubic innocence.

Yet it wasn’t long before little Emily Horne’s natural excitement at family weddings turned into a bizarre obsession. She grew up to be a serial bigamist and now faces up to seven years in prison after marrying illegally for a fourth time.

In an exclusive interview with The Mail on Sunday, her father Graham Horne says he has virtually disowned his daughter, whose fantasy life and ‘unnatural appetite for sex’ have left her family in despair.

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EMILY HORNE AS A BRIDSMAID

Bridesmaid to bigamist: Emily Horne, aged three, right, as a bridesmaid at an uncle’s wedding, and left, working as a model

‘She’s lied time and again – that this time it was the right man and that she had divorced and it was all legal,’ he said. ‘When I challenged Emily with the truth she just would say, “Why don’t you ever believe me?” But I knew these marriages were all a sham.’

He recalled that, aged just 12, she once begged him to buy her a second-hand wedding dress from a charity shop. She just grabbed my hand and said, “Daddy, look at that beautiful dress. Please buy it for me.”

‘It all seemed so innocent. I paid ?20 for it, which was a lot of money at the time. It was a beautiful satin dress. We took it home and she tried it on straight away, twirling around in front of us. She was beaming with delight and she looked a picture.’

While she had shown some academic promise, she ‘went off the rails’ during adolescence, possibly due to the break-up of 54-year-old Mr Horne’s marriage to Emily’s mother, Marion.

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Fantasy life: Emily’s wedding to fourth husband James Matthews

‘She quit school on the day of her 16th birthday, walked out and never went back because she knew that was the legal leaving age,’ said Mr Horne, a hotel night manager from York.

‘She had become well known to the police, staying out all night and not coming home, sometimes for days. It caused me great pain and heartache. She had been such a brilliant little girl. I saw her descend into a streetwise urchin with an unnatural appetite for sex.

‘When Elaine, my second wife, and I moved to a house we bought after my father died, I asked her if she wanted to live with us. She told me, “I want to go it alone, Dad.” ’

Mr Horne added: ‘There were so many lies. She once claimed she went to university to study physics, but she left school without any qualifications.

‘I was listed as a retired Army major on one wedding certificate. I left the Royal Signals as a radio operator. I could laugh, but when it involves the daughter I idolised it’s not funny.’

Emily, 30, began collecting husbands at the age of 18, when she married soldier Paul Rigby.

Mr Horne said: ‘I had forbidden the marriage because of her age but she went through with it anyway. I didn’t go to the wedding – I haven’t been to any of them. She would show me wedding pictures and say, “I’ve done it again, Dad.” I told her I didn’t want to know.’

Mr Horne told how Emily stole his wife’s credit cards to buy clothes and wigs. And he recalled an occasion when her sister Verity – who did go to Leeds University and gained a degree in classics – applied for a passport. Verity was going to Greece as part of her studies. She received a reply from the passport office saying she already had one. It could only be down to Emily. Thankfully, they issued Verity with an emergency passport.’

Mr Horne still sees Emily from time to time. She has worked as a stripogram and a ‘glamour’ model and has starred in two adult films.

‘She seems to go underground, then resurfaces,’ he said. ‘Only last week, after she hit the headlines again, she rang me and said: “Hi Dad, how are you?”

‘I replied, “Not very well.”

‘All she said was, “Is it me, Dad?”

‘I exploded, shouting, “When are you going to give us some peace?” and slammed down the phone.

‘A part of me knows that one day I’ll get a call from the police saying she’s been found dead.’

Emily left Mr Rigby in 1996 for bank worker Sean Cunningham, marrying him in 1999.

A year later she married website designer Chris Barrett. He found out about her previous marriages and went to the police, who cautioned her for bigamy. But in March 2002 she wed husband number four, train guard James Matthews. In 2004 at Ipswich Crown Court she was jailed for six months after pleading guilty to bigamy.

Now she awaits sentence at Manchester Crown Court after pleading guilty last week to bigamously marrying fifth husband, salesman Ashley Baker, in 2007.

Yesterday it was revealed she is living with another man,  glazier Wayne Harper, in his parents’ home in Kingswinford, West Midlands. They have not married.

Mr Horne said: ‘I can’t work out why she does it. She blames bipolar disorder. Only she can deal with this. The medical care is out there. She has to agree to it. Nothing she can do to me now can cause any more



Finding the right wedding dress takes time and planning. You want something comfortable, flattering and something that can withstand the long hours or whirling and twirling on the reception dance floor. This year’s trends are different from what I’ve seen gracing the covers of The Knot, and Modern Bride. Hemlines are shorter this year and some wedding styles are–gasp!–not even white.

Here are some styles that are out now.

Shorter Dresses/Hemlines
Not a fan of the traditional wedding dress? Well you can push the matrimonial envelope in a chic and modern way with a short wedding dress. The short wedding dress has a fitted bodice with a full skirt that ends at around the knee. Some styles are strapless or have spaghetti straps.

The style show here, is an Alfred Angelo with crystal beading, sequins and pearls can be a great dress for a casual outdoor or destination wedding.


Details/Embellishments
This year’s wedding dresses are all about added detailing and embellishments. Beading, ribbons and lace are playing up the feminine look against light chiffon and silk.

Color Color Color
White and ivory are still the traditional colors for wedding dresses, but color is making an appearance this year. Soft pastels and scarlets made their appearance this year on the runway, later heading straight the the boutiques. If color is not your thing, but you want to make a slight statement, traditional white dresses can have added colored ribbon or a train to match your bridesmaides.



i find some tips for bridemaid,it is useful ,i think ,so i list here,oh,wait,some friends ask me if they could copy my passage ,yes ,of course,i am so glad if you think they are useful,and this tips is from an article i come across on the net,i list it here maybe one day i can use it as reference,because my sisters and many of my friends are prepairing to be a bride.

now here they are the dos and donots:

DO: Be prepared. Pack a little emergency kit with things the bride may need, says Kim. Like a stain stick for a dress mishap, some extra cash, safety pins and lip gloss. Get a schedule of the day’s events, and contacts for vendors and the wedding party in case anything needs a last-minute fix. “The bride shouldn’t have to co-ordinate those things on the day of,” says Kim.

DO: Be specific when offering to help the bride with pre-wedding chores. “You don’t want to just say ‘What can I help you with?’ It incites stress because then she’s got to figure it out. Ask if you can stuff envelopes. Or if you can go dress shopping with her after work one day,” Dolgin says.

DO: Be honest. You’re allowed to tell the bride that you don’t like the bridesmaid dress. And you’re allowed to alert her to bridezilla behaviour. “You don’t have to cut your hair if the bossy bride asks you to,” Dolgin says.

DO: Walk slowly, know your role, and smile, smile, smile. “People get nervous, but you have to take it easy and let people look at you down the aisle,” Kim says. “The photographer needs a photo.” If you’re the maid of honour, be ready to fluff the bride’s dress and hold her flowers.

DO: Get on the dance floor. “The wedding party can really set the tone for the event, and should help get people involved,” says Kim. Dolgin agrees. “The bride really is counting on you to make sure people have a good time,” she said. Direct guests to the bar or the bathroom. And stand up for the bouquet toss.

BRIDESMAID DON’TS:

DON’T: Badmouth the bride. No saying she’s so bossy, no gossiping about how you hate the colour of the dress. “It’s especially tricky on emails - you can hit ‘reply to all’ and end up sending the message to her,” Dolgin says. “The bride is planning a huge event and she’s under a lot of stress, so be sensitive to her feelings.”

DON’T: Expect everything to be free, or, alternatively, agree to pay when you can’t. “Bridesmaid showers, bachelorette parties, these things can really cost a lot of money,” says Kim. “You have to be prepared to pay. And if you can’t, you have to be upfront about it.” It’s perfectly OK to opt out of some festivities if you can’t foot the bill. Also, don’t expect the bride to pay for your hair and makeup on the day of the wedding.

DON’T: Get trashed at the reception. As a member of the wedding party you are essentially an extension of the bride. “You’re kind of on stage, playing a role, and it’s important to be respectful,” Kim says.

DON’T: Take on too much. Tasks will come up that you must delegate to your fellow maids, even if you are the maid of honour. One woman deals with lunch while everyone’s getting ready, and another runs errands to fix a broken button and get safety pins. If you do it all yourself, you’ll get resentful watching everyone else have fun.

DON’T: Wait until the day of the wedding to tell the bride her dress is too tight, or her hairdo is ugly. “She needs to know, but telling her on her wedding day is going to send her into a panic,” Dolgin said. “Let it go if you haven’t spoken up.” Speak up in the weeks and months before the wedding if you notice the dress is too tight or her panty line is showing. She’ll thank you for it.

the tips is from canadianpress

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i read this passage on http://www.wickedlocal.com/waltham/news/x2085741767/Yolanda-helps-TV-bride-dress-the-part,i not so sure what is “Hitched or Ditched,”a TV show ?maybe ?but i think it may be very interesting if it is a tv show.

When the producers of “Hitched or Ditched,” were searching for a Boston area bridal shop to feature on the new reality show they went right to Yolanda’s.

“They had heard good things, that we were the best in New England and wanted us to be a part of it,” said Debra Bezjian, a bridal manager at Yolanda Cellucci’s bridal shop. “They came to our store and loved our store.”

Tonight, during the second episode of the CW network’s new reality TV show, Bezjian from Yolanda Enterprises, on Waverley Oaks Road, will help the-bride-to-be select her gown and accessories.

The each episode of “Hitched or Ditched” follows a couple who is in a long-term relationship down the aisle. The couples were nominated by a friend. The wedding is completely paid for, but has to be planned in a week’s time. The show tests the relationship, and in the end it is up to the couple to make the final decision: Will they get hitched or just ditch.

Tonight’s episode features a Boston couple, Anissa, 22, and Jesse, 30. Anissa works as a systems analyst and Jesse is a mortgage banker. The show’s Web site says they have been together for four years, and they say “trust” the biggest obstacle in their relationship.

On Feb. 7, the “Hitched or Ditched” crew taped in a suite at Boston’s Fairmont Copley Plaza, the same hotel where the wedding takes place. Bezjian brought a sampling of dresses from Yolanda’s.

“It was exciting,” Bezjian said. She has been working at the bridal shop for 20 years, keeping track of the store’s stock and handling special orders that come into the shop.

“It was so much fun when I got there,” Bezjian said. “The producer told me what she was looking for and I brought out about six gowns and veils. She came out, I met her, her mother and her two sisters.”

Anissa selected a gown from the Demetrios collection, a veil and headpiece from Yolanda’s custom design department, and shoes from Salon Shoes, according to a press release from Yolanda’s.

“She was a lovely girl,” Bezjian said. “Beautiful figure. We tried on two gowns and then the third one, that was it.”

“Hitched or Ditched,” airs Tuesday nights at 9 p.m. on the CW.

Daily News staff reporter Jeff Gilbride contributed to this report.

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